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When Setting out a Plan: Be Specific

April 16, 2012 in Fearless Tennis, Mindset

What if the only barrier between where you are now and where you want to be is simply the lack of a specific plan? Perhaps there is a change you’ve been wanting to make on the court or in your own life but it continues to allude you. On some level, I think this was one of the primary reasons I never integrated the transition game into my tactical plan in matches until recently. When some people mentioned the idea of coming to the net it sounded unrealistic. “That’s just not my game,” I thought. I had no specific image on how this would happen. When I heard it (usually from my father) it was a pipe dream. I had no idea when I would do this, not to mention the fact that I didn’t think I really even had a volley. Read the rest of this entry →

Be your own Advocate on the Court: The Role of Autonomy

October 25, 2011 in Fearless Tennis, Managing your Thoughts, Mindset

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the differences in how players handle pressure. I talk to juniors and adults all week long about their experience in the game–what holds them back, how they worry about losing when ahead, not believing in themselves enough to beat someone they believe they could beat, worry about a tournament days before it begins, playing well yet their inner voice tries to take them down anyway, etc… Read the rest of this entry →

The Epitome of Letting Go: Djokovic on Match Point

September 27, 2011 in Fearless Tennis, Mindset

Not surprisingly, there has been a lot of discussion about “the shot”–Djokovic’s forehand return winner at double match point down a few weeks ago in the Semis of the Open against Federer.

I thought it would be useful to explore this moment in more depth to help all players benefit from this amazing scenario. Read the rest of this entry →

Applying Mental Skills

August 18, 2011 in Competition, Fearless Tennis, Mindset

Do you find that you get stuck in old mental habits–worrying about whether you will win or lose, getting frustrated with your errors, feeling tense? Someone once told me never to tell students that something is hard to do. I disagree. Breaking old mental habits, based on all of our past conditioning, IS hard. Being real about this sets us up for the challenge and opportunity before us. To think otherwise is both unfair and unrealistic. Read the rest of this entry →

Mastering Your Time Between Points: Stage Three

December 15, 2010 in Competition, Fearless Tennis, Mindset

Mastering your time between points must include, at times, some tactical or technical goal–that is, how you want to play the next point. And stage three would be the time to do it. You’ve already directed your attention away from thoughts or judgment about the last point and focused your eyes on something external (i.e. your strings). Read the rest of this entry →

Mastering Your Time Between Points: Stage Two

October 17, 2010 in Competition, Fearless Tennis, Mindset

So, I’ve talked about getting out of your head after the point is over and putting your attention into your body—an internal focus. As I said, this should be approximately 5 seconds or so. It will help keep you present and less vulnerable to the extraneous, unproductive thoughts that swirl around in your mind. The key is that you are directing your mind and not being passive because we all know how negativity and indecision can trap us when we are not clear about what to do with our mind. Read the rest of this entry →

Mastering Your Time Between Points-Stage One

October 15, 2010 in Competition, Fearless Tennis, Mindset

Did you know that only 20% of your time on the court is actually spent hitting balls? Were you aware that the remaining 80% of time in any given match is spent walking from one side of the court to the other, sitting on changeovers, or preparing for the next point? This time is ripe with opportunities for the brain to work over time. After all, there is a score, the prospect of winning or losing, perhaps a shot to fix or a strategy to revise, a comment from a doubles partner to let go of….Oh, the traps we can find ourselves in! For years, I fell into them a lot! Still do, but  far less frequently now that I am clearer on what to do with my mind. Read the rest of this entry →

Cultivating Composure: The Practice of Acceptance

July 2, 2010 in Fearless Tennis, Mindset

Why is it so hard to maintain composure in tennis? There is no team or person on the sideline to cushion the blow of a missed shot at a critical time. There is noone to pull you out of that frustrating place when you can’t seem to find your shots. The truth is you are exposed at all times; there is nowhere to hide when things aren’t going your way. You are all alone out there to deal with the emotional ups and downs. Read the rest of this entry →

The Power of Belief: How to Keep Your Inner Demons at Bay

June 29, 2010 in Competition, Fearless Tennis, Mindset

As I’m sure you know, self-belief is critical if you expect to win at any level. The best in the game have it most of the time–especially Federer and Nadal. But, they too, have their moments, especially when they’re playing one another. Read the rest of this entry →

Mental and Emotional Recovery: Isner and Mahut Epic Battle

June 24, 2010 in Competition, Fearless Tennis, Mindset, Wimbledon

No doubt John Isner and Nicolaus Mahut are part of something amazing, absolutely amazing. Patrick McEnroe is right that win or lose Isner and Mahut have to feel special. They’ve touched every tennis player on the planet. This will be a memory they will never forget. Read the rest of this entry →